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  • ENTJ

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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    sounds bitter
    That's real experience speaking.

    xNFJs and xNFPs seem similar on the surface, and that similarity can be deceptive, but if you dig deeper they share very little values in common. In socionics they are located in opposite quadra from each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sulfit View Post
    That's real experience speaking.

    xNFJs and xNFPs seem similar on the surface, and that similarity can be deceptive, but if you dig deeper they share very little values in common. In socionics they are located in opposite quadra from each other.
    I never said she was wrong, i said she sounded bitter, there's a difference
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    I never said she was wrong, i said she sounded bitter, there's a difference
    you sound defensive

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    Quote Originally Posted by sulfit View Post
    you sound defensive
    I'm not being defensive, sorry if i came across as such. I'll try better next time (that's a lie, I won't)
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    Confident, entertaining, energetic (draws energy from within and from the environment), intuitive, nurturing, eccentric. aybe ENFJ/ ENFP?

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    I've already found the one I'm going to marry and she's all 16 flavors rolled into one

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    I really do believe that enneagram and variant stackings come into play in tandem with one's overall type. I know a lot of people may not subscribe to this view, but I think it helps in explaining certain attractions inside general type definitions.

    For example, my twin is an ENFP, but she's a 7w6 social. She has a tendency to head toward xNTJ social 8s and INFJ sexual 4/5s. With the NTs, she needs him on an open level plain with similar motivations. With the NF, it's more about fusion and soul-sameness. She has a solid Ne primary world focus, and is more extroverted than myself by a mile and does not require the same levels of solitude and alone time that I do. Other ENFPs may not feel comfortable with an NT, whereas others may not feel comfortable with added NF. My INFJ 4w5 father has always been predisposed toward SFPs. My ENFJ 3w2 friend likes INFPs.

    It's very important not to say "This is right/wrong" or you'll end up in a ditch.

    As an Ni-intensive 4w3, I prefer ENTPs. We just click. I tend to be too intense for introverts and too harsh for other NFs. As a girl, I was attracted to INFPs, ISFPs, and then as I got older, ISTPs.
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    EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
    RLUEI, Choleric/Melancholic
    Inquistive/Limbic
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    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

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    Quote Originally Posted by Riva View Post
    Considering these facts I would imagine the best match for INFJ females are INTPs. But sadly INTPs are emotionally retarded. Yikes!
    I'm stereotyping of course.
    Why would the INTP need to be anything but emotionally inept if the other half has that task smothered in aptitude?
    I N V I C T U S

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ten View Post
    There is just something I find deeply unsatisfying about dealing with XNFPs the older I get and on the other hand, I find Se types more likeable and better for my development with each passing year whereas when I was younger this was not so obviously the case at all that is all I am saying.
    Well I'm older and happily married to an ENFP for five years running. He's very different in how he functions but we don't disagree on the important things like "Is there any inherent point which needs no logical proof in being nice and decent to people?", "Is there very obviously a higher purpose to the universe, life and everything?" and "Are you a kooky sap, really?" (<---answer: no. No sir, am not.) . He treats me with inherent respect because we have similar values and I don't have to explain myself over and over again. I feel he may not always understand why I do things the way I do them but that he appreciates me for who I am and has the respect and courtesy to allow me to live my life the way I want to. It's hard to put into words. I do think it's very easy for us to enjoy life together. I really like his zest for life coupled with the Ne zaniness and Fi values. It's more about picking your poison, personal preference and many compatibility factors on top of that, and if you're a romantic like I am, maybe a bit of fate and destiny thrown in the mix too.

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    I was just talking to my ENFP twin last night about guys (a much more complicated issue than I'm making it sound). It had begun as a question - she asked me if I found her "exhausting" to which I said not at all. She's a social and I'm a sexual, yes, so I need a lot of time to myself, but I don't find her exhausting, and I told her that Ne-primaries have a way of making me feel a great deal better overall just by being around them. There's something - consoling? easing? - about Ne-primaries to my volatile nature. They get me out of my volcano, or at the very least, seem to LIKE me as the fire-eater that I am, and I absolutely cannot fathom why.

    *I* am the exhausting one. *I* am the fraud. *I* am the black spot on the sun. They live on the surface and in a state of bravery I have difficulty even coming close to.
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
    RLUEI, Choleric/Melancholic
    Inquistive/Limbic
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    Researcher: VDI-P
    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

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