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    yes, there is a variety of possible outcomes

    just take it slow, but let her know that you are interested and see what she thinks

    she will (most likely) think about

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    Quote Originally Posted by batumi View Post
    You want to make a great first impression for dating?
    Dinner at an unusual restaurant before or after some kind of interesting exhibit,
    particularly one that has some kind of connection to a spiritual tradition.
    I'm an INFJ female and this sounds awesome on many levels.
    a) i like original things - especially if i know the person took the effort to make it original, that goes a long way! and it would also lead me to feel that they understood that I would appreciate that, which is significant
    b) exhibits - things you can talk about but also ponder in silence, i'd appreciate having a bit of both.. so its a great mix
    c) something with some sort of connection to the spiritual - this would be a huge huge plus - seriously.

    Good luck!

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    thx all. i took a chance tonight at a party and it worked out!

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    I think I might not be the only one wondering what happened?
    "The life of the individual has meaning only insofar as it aids in making the life of every living thing nobler and more beautiful."
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    Quote Originally Posted by DigitalMethod View Post
    I think I might not be the only one wondering what happened?
    I'd say he took it as slow as an ENTP can. So possibly as much as 2 hours of verbal sparring, flattery and misc before they got nekkid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dga View Post
    As I've looked into this mbti stuff, she really fits the classic infj, and i the classic entp, not that means we would have to come together.
    A meeting of the classical, how nice. Me, I'm more of a Renaissance man.
    Why do we always come here?

    I guess we'll never know.

    It's like a kind of torture,
    To have to watch this show.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JivinJeffJones View Post
    I'd say he took it as slow as an ENTP can. So possibly as much as 2 hours of verbal sparring, flattery and misc before they got nekkid.
    hehe. it might very well have been her first kiss, but she was damn good at it. nekkid will have to wait a lil bit, but i do have a birthday coming up this week.

    I had spent some time hanging out at her job this week and we sat around talking a few hours at a club when i finally decided to try to closer. It was like she was waiting for it.

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    Heh. I knew by the end of our first conversation that my INTP was 'the one.' If he'd waited around a couple of years to ask me out, I'd have to have kicked his butt.
    “There are two novels that can change a bookish fourteen-year old’s life: The Lord of the Rings and Atlas Shrugged. One is a childish fantasy that often engenders a lifelong obsession with its unbelievable heroes, leading to an emotionally stunted, socially crippled adulthood, unable to deal with the real world. The other, of course, involves orcs.”
    ~ John Rogers

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    Quote Originally Posted by cafe View Post
    Heh. I knew by the end of our first conversation that my INTP was 'the one.' If he'd waited around a couple of years to ask me out, I'd have to have kicked his butt.
    Really? Oh wait, that makes sense. Seems like the J is very decisive, and the INF knows exactly how intimate relationships work, so the match is made with confidence very early. Unless there are unforeseen variables.
    Reyson: ...If you were to change your ways, I'm sure we could rebuild the relationship the two of us once shared.

    Naesala: Oh no, that I could never do. You see, humans are essential to the fulfillment of my ambitions.

    Reyson: You've changed, Naesala. If this is the path you've chosen, I've nothing left to say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mort Belfry View Post
    A meeting of the classical, how nice. Me, I'm more of a Renaissance man.
    da vinci has always been one of my heros

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