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    Quote Originally Posted by Emilie View Post
    ExFJs?

    Nothing against them, but their Fe is just oozing all over the place. Most of them act like they like you a lot even if they hate you, so they just vent by talking behind your back. Fi's phony radar goes off the map around them.
    I think dominant Fe types are more offensive to dominant Fi types like INFPs because the extraversion of the function is so off-putting and wrong (value judgement style) to us.
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    While i have found a couple ENTPs IRL grating (particularly when they are young) its amongst the ones Ive encountered online that are most odious. Also, some INTJ nutters online, too.

    I don't have any hate for Fe primaries. I'm surprised so many others have had bad experiences I've had some great EXFJ roommates. I find EXFJs to be generally positive people and I feel relaxed and confident around them. Perhaps I've only clearly identified mature ones (well in their 30s and older) but one of my early inspirational figures was an older EXFJ woman. She was so strong and charismatic and just a very nice person. Unfortunately she was plagued by a drinking issue and maybe something else but I admired her.

    I did have one EXFJ coworker in retail that was unbearably bossy in the "my BO don't stink" kinda way and all the other coworkers regardless of type could barely stand her.

    As far as being bossy and controlling I just smile and keep on my way. Im not wasting energy on pissing contests and unless someone is in a position of power over me (boss etc) who cares? Sometimes I think Fi doms are so sensitive to the notion of someone bossing them that they forget they have a choice in the matter. I think Fi doms bristle under the *principle* of it.

    Maybe it's being an SO primary, but I don't have a problem with Fe, though it may have a problem with me. :P
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    I've had problems with people of various types - some that spring to mind immediately are ESFP, ENFP, ESFJ, ESTJ, INTx, and possibly INFP.

    I would put this down more to these people not being particularly mature or "healthy", rather than it being specifically type-related. I'd say anyone of any type can be an ass, or can be wonderful. Another problem has sometimes been that we have had very different expectations for our relationship (whether that's a friendship or "relationship"), and sometimes that's been partly my bad. And it's not like I've been "healthy" 100% of the time in my life, either. Although, people I've had huge problems with have also tended to be those who others have huge problems with, I've noticed.

    I have problems particularly with people who are any or all of the following: mean, inconsistent, flaky, hypocritical, arrogant. Beyond individual interactions where I've had problems, I really don't like people who behave like stereotypical ESFPs, ie. exhibiting the worst, most stupid qualities of that type. (I think a healthy/kind ESFP can be fantastic and probably has a lot of qualities I'd like to have.) I also find that many NTs can be highly arrogant, and INTJs (or perhaps again I should say those behaving like stereotypical INTJs) can be infuriating.

    Although we can have gaps in understanding each other, and I sometimes find them too rigid, and they seem to find me too whimsical/dreamy...I basically love SJs.
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    I could do without xSFJ's entirely.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexicon View Post
    I could do without xSFJ's entirely.
    I dislike being around anyone super strict with narrow views, so I'd choose STJ's. Some SFJ's can be really great! Excellent caretakers and extremely thoughtful. My best friend is an ESFJ and she she is by far, one of the greatest people I know.

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    ESFJ....also ESTJ. The function I seriously like the least is Fe. I can't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    I dislike Fe doms (ESFJs and ENFJs) mostly because of all of the implicit expectation and lack of boundaries they tend to have.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emilie View Post
    ExFJs?

    Nothing against them, but their Fe is just oozing all over the place. Most of them act like they like you a lot even if they hate you, so they just vent by talking behind your back. Fi's phony radar goes off the map around them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by raindancing View Post
    Oh and as a side note, ESFJs annoy the holy hell out of my INTP.
    I have an ESFJ sister, they are really not that bad if you get to know them and they you! It's quite remarkable, but I quite like how she really tries to go through great lengths to follow my understanding. Even though she isn't that adapt to it, sometimes she understands me better than most NT's, just because other NT's might not try at all. And the fact that she really has to try hard makes it all the more charming.

    I must say she is one of the stronger and more balanced ESFJ's I know though. And I do in fact not get along with ESFJ's outside of my comfort zone much, although I can't really say it turns to dislike either, more like a lack of similar interests to keep each other engaged..

    PS: Growing up and during puberty we were sworn enemies. xP
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    I don't disagree with you @Fluffywolf about Fe doms but I will say INTPs loooooooove Fe types. Apparently XNFPs don't. Which I'm surprised about. I like Fe generally.
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