Is nagging typical for NF? Is it done in stressed situations when you become overly critical? If so why do you do it, is there something you want to change , you're not happy with or you just can't stop youself? Are you really sorry later?
I find it very annoying and an immature way of trying to get what you want instead of looking at yourself first and see what YOU can do about things. It's a lot of different from NT "nagging", they usually clearly say what they want and they get it out very straight forward without manipulating you emotionaly and doing bad to your self-esteem. Do NF have hard time accepting you for who you are because of thier high standards and ideals?
I have a INFP friend and she is like that a lot. Any ideas how to stop her? I tried by telling her all this but she slips into the same pattern again so I wonder is this common? I'm afraid i'm going to have to stop hanging out with her. I'm starting to see her as obsessed with me and controlling tought she is probably just over analyzing things.