Well I told myself I wouldn't do this but I am freaking out inside so here I go:
How do you encourage an INFJ, specifically a male INFJ, in a potential romantic relationship? What is a good way to let him know that you have not friend-zoned him that isn't coming on too strong?
I went on a date with a male INFJ 2 and a half weeks ago, which was 2 days before I flew back to my hometown for the summer (we go to school together and I am out of my state.) He told me he had fun and we have kept in contact but not in amazing contact or anything, and sometimes he has just not responded to stuff. The stuff wasn't anything really really significant, but it was still stuff I expected a response to. I am worried that maybe the date changed his mind about me. I don't know the details about his previous dating experiences but apparently he has been on dates before where he was not yet completely sold on the girl, so I should probably assume that the fact that he asked me on a date at all is not fool-proof evidence that he is crazy about me, like it is with some INFJs. In the past he has really seemed to like me a lot though, although he can be sort of hot and cold. What would make an INFJ change his mind about someone? How can you tell if he has? Does there have to be perfect chemistry on the first date, even if you have also had really good chemistry in the past? INFJs, if you changed your mind about someone because of a date would you try harder to let them down easy or would you try to make it clear to the person that you changed your mind?
I can give you guys more details if you want them but this is basically what I want to know