I haven't really cared about things for a while mainly things that concern friends. I feel this is odd behavior for an INFJ (with the Fe being their auxiliary), but honestly I kinda don't care about a lot they have to say or clearing up issues we may have. I feel like I listen or go through the argument to be polite. Listening is fine, but if I was actually asking myself do I care about what their saying I don't think I would. I'll go through an argument to not make it worse, but I know I usually don't care about whatever we're arguing about. Disputes are dumb to me I dislike them and they make me uncomfortable. If I could have it my way after a argument everything would go back to normal and there is no making up afterwards. Now I realize that I may be coming off like I don't care about most things, but I do care about some things (a lot) such as my schooling (I rather not go to school, but I won't let me grades suffer) my dreams coming true and taking the steps it takes to get there, the future, family, oddly enough people getting hurt on tv, and when it comes to friends not starting a argument, being polite, and not hurting their feelings. So there are things, but when it comes to actually caring or sympathizing about their life or issues they may have with me I can't say I do that too much.
So I want to know if other INFJs or NFs can relate. I feel like a missing a sympathizing gene when it comes to dealing with friends. Is this normal and most people just don't speak about it or is this odd?