She goes out and achieves so much, in a quiet yet powerful way. She is not boastful about her many talents and despite possessing all those talents, has a beautifully vulnerable side that continues to seek knowledge.
Her mind is open and caring. She looks after those around her, making sure they're all feeling included and okay. She has insight and can look beyond the surface and know when something is wrong. There's something wise about her, despite her being much younger than I am. She somehow inspires people to be better without being pushy or overbearing. She's going to go so far - she's like a firework ascending to the sky, just before it explodes into colour and shimmers of light.
Idealist describing another idealist here. I don't know if these are specifically ENFJ traits, but these things are why I think she is totally ace!
they're flameballs existing in a maelstrom of colour, energy and instincts; on the periphery of conscious thought and planned action. like candles that burn at both ends, they live larger than life in a rage of life. Perhaps they eventually exhaust themselves. But if they don't, what you have is a steady, genuine fire that lasts, throwing out warm sparks of empath brilliance.
If they were a voice, they'd be the voice of an Old World jazz singer in a smoke-filled cabaret, sultry low tones of sophistication tinged with the hardiness of experience and alcoholism, yet still believing, still loving, with the wonder of a child. They'd be 50 and singing of first loves in perfect faith.
just gotta love 'em flameballs.
You gave me hyacinths first a year ago;
They called me the hyacinth girl.
Yet when we came back, late, from the Hyacinth garden,
Your arms full, and your hair wet, I could not
Speak, and my eyes failed, I was neither
Living nor dead, and I knew nothing,
Looking into the heart of light, the silence.
I honestly look at the two ENFJs I know as exemplars of what I wish I could be: Outgoing, generous, honest, good with leadership roles, energetic, and very approachable. Both of them have amazing laughs too; the kind that make you want to laugh everytime they do.