I find something about this thread really interesting. The Hate an ENFJ thread is 24 pages long and filled with people's experiences of nasty, evil ENFJ's...the Love an ENFJ thread is 3 pages long and most of the responses are responding to the few who wrote about something they loved about an ENFJ. I think that most people here don't actually know as many ENFJ's as they claim to know. I know how many people in my life have tested as ENFJ's and aren't and found that out in true test (MTBI or retesting). It seems to me that this thread is more reflective of the true amount of ENFJ's around....not many... The one ENFJ I know in real life is also the most laid back extrovert ever. People are her priority without thought of any recognition given to herself for all she does. Always it's..."well sure of course I will..never a "what's in it for me...."