I'm not sure if this is an ENFP thing, or an NF thing, or an every type thing.
I have a very hard time trusting people. I have few close friends, but A LOT of acquaintances.
The people I do trust, are people I've known for a very long time. Family, childhood friends, etc.
When someone hurts me deeply enough, I am able to "turn myself off" towards them.
Suddenly, all love/liking I had for them just goes away, and I just feel cold or slightly bitter. I want nothing to do with them, I basically cast them away.
I've done this many times, more commonly with friends/boyfriends than family.
Is this an ENFP thing? NF thing? Every type thing?