Quote Originally Posted by HotpinkHeatwave View Post
I'm not sure if this is an ENFP thing, or an NF thing, or an every type thing.

I have a very hard time trusting people. I have few close friends, but A LOT of acquaintances.

The people I do trust, are people I've known for a very long time. Family, childhood friends, etc.

But -

When someone hurts me deeply enough, I am able to "turn myself off" towards them.

Suddenly, all love/liking I had for them just goes away, and I just feel cold or slightly bitter. I want nothing to do with them, I basically cast them away.

I've done this many times, more commonly with friends/boyfriends than family.

Is this an ENFP thing? NF thing? Every type thing?
I can do this. If I have a logical reason not then I will just apear cold and distant. I have to be carful not to do it to much as I find easy. I think the reason is than many people who were very close to me have died, from an early age, I also left my home country and moved away from everything I know when I was 16, Im able to deal with loss a little to easily. I just imagine the person who has hurt me had died. A little fucked up