i can't stand p-aggression. i guess i could come off as p-a if i were in a situation where i wanted to be honest about something, but i was afraid of how it would be taken, and i was tiptoeing around about it. but usually i'm too direct to be p-a.
proteanmix spoke a bit about it in some posts a while back.Manipulative - how? I've heard this said before about INFJs and I don't see it. Maybe you could give examples.