I recently ended a friendship with a married ENFP I met a few years ago, and the whole experience was kind of crazy and extremely confusing. (Confusing mostly on account of the fact that he is an ENFP. No doubt you are probably shaking your head right now and thinking I'm terribly naive for believing he might have had any feelings for me beyond those which ENFPs seem to have for everyone. Which is fair enough, really, because I thought the same for two years. But I can assure you, you do not have all the facts.)
Unfortunately, given the nature of the situation, and the fact that some of the information might be revealing, I'm rather paranoid about posting the entire story, publicly, on the Internet. (Self-preservation and all that.) I just feel very lost right now, and I'd really appreciate some insight from you ENFPs--and maybe other INFJs who have had experiences with ENFPs.
I know these questions will seem vague without any context, but I thought I'd throw them out anyway. I guess if you have more specific queries about the guy in question, I can try to answer them for you.
ENFPs (males, especially), do you think two people can have "emotional affair"? As such an emotionally-intense type, can you ever be too emotionally intimate with a person, even if you have a SO? And if any of you are married, in particular, how have you had to change the way you interact with members of the opposite sex--if at all?
(Another question that sounds random but is actually relevant: Do any ENFPs have a tendency to engage in risky and/or self-destructive behaviors when depressed?)
I might be crazy for making this my very first post, but you all seem lovely, so.