okay, so i've seen this saying tossed around for a couple of ENFPs on the net. some for which it applies to and for some ENFPs it doesn't, which is completely cool. but for this "ENFP" it absolutely does. i've always felt that there was something about me that separated me from people even when i was young. not even necessarily in a good way. i love being around people and when i am out with them, there's nothing shy about who i am. i've also been this way since i was younger. i love connecting with and expressing myself to others. especially when it's accepted. but when i'm by myself i am very far from lonely. i really enjoy my own company.
lately i've noticed that i actually prefer it more often than not. i love going out and having tons of adventures alone. going to the movies, wandering outside barefoot, etc. i love it! i get to be myself completely, no expectations from others~ i'm completely fine with it and it's comfortable. i would love if i had a rad significant other that i could do all of this with, but i'm okay alone. i know i'm blabbing, but the point is (lol) that over the passed year and some months, i've become even more of a "loner" than i already am and when it comes to people i've been wanting to keep a certain amount of distance.
i know that i'm very sensitive and when i'm with people i risk going through emotional pain and other things (being enneatype 7 i avoid that immediately). i just feel like there's something about me thats wrong and that it'd just be better for me to be by myself until i find someone that can join my wolf pack lol. my tolerance level in my friendships have changed as well. i also read that ENFPs can be inconsistent? for me that's very true when it comes to my relationships with people. especially when i go on hermit mode. i'm like one of those movie characters that disappears for a year or something and then pops back into someones life outta nowhere and picks right back up where they left off. (LIKE A GYPSY!) is it normal for ENFPs to want to be alone a lot? or maybe my MBTI type has changed idk. what do you guys think? typical behavior or no?