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    It seems that ENFJs have the biggest reputation out of all the types for being warm and fuzzy. But can anyone think of any examples, real or fictional, of ENFJs who've turned towards the dark side?

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    I've known a literally psychopathic ENFJ, who was able to smooth-talk others and manipulate them in very self-serving ways. He had also killed a guy and is now in jail again after having violated parole. That parole violation was caused by him manipulating his straight roommate into sleeping with him on several occasions, which eventually caused tension between the two and led to violence. He was my best friend for a while.

    I could try to bend the already flimsy Jungian theory to explain this--perhaps he was in an Fe-Se loop or his Fi, in a shadow position, left him without a conscience--but I won't.

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    I'm sorry fellow ENFJs... but God, I hate the ENFJs female. I know some ENFJ girls, and damn, they are all evil. Not essentially evil, but they have some bad motivations.

    All of them are popular, with other girls and boys. They cativate others with their primary Fe, and they make everyone thinks they like the person the ENFJ is with. It feels like their Fe is only used to make other people admire the ENFJ, so she can manipulate these persons later, using for some purpose.
    ENFJ girls that I know also love making some drama. One of them likes to make other people think that her life is hard, when it's not.

    They are the worst type of friend: the friend that we take a long time to discover that is "bad".

    There are some exceptions, of course. My mom, for example, is an ENFJ, but she doesn't have any of these attributes. All of them are very good counselours, mainly when it's about love life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IceBlock View Post
    I'm sorry fellow ENFJs... but God, I hate the ENFJs female. I know some ENFJ girls, and damn, they are all evil. Not essentially evil, but they have some bad motivations.

    All of them are popular, with other girls and boys. They cativate others with their primary Fe, and they make everyone thinks they like the person the ENFJ is with. It feels like their Fe is only used to make other people admire the ENFJ, so she can manipulate these persons later, using for some purpose.
    ENFJ girls that I know also love making some drama. One of them likes to make other people think that her life is hard, when it's not.

    They are the worst type of friend: the friend that we take a long time to discover that is "bad".

    There are some exceptions, of course. My mom, for example, is an ENFJ, but she doesn't have any of these attributes. All of them are very good counselours, mainly when it's about love life.
    You've probably misunderstood the ENFJ. I admire the ENFJ's in my life. My sister amazes me how she takes an interest in total strangers when we're out and about. We were at a gourmet popcorn store ordering some popcorn and this girl next to us ordered a whole bunch of stuff. My sister can't control it, she started talking to the girl like she's her best friend. The girl looked like an introvert, but like almost everyone my sister comes in contact with, they open up right away and love her. My sister was taking a genuine interest: asking the girl if she tried the different flavors and what was all the stuff she ordered. The girl said it was for her son’s birthday party. My sister tells the girl what a great idea that was and how she might do that for my nephew.

    My sister has a natural ability to make friends. She genuinely likes people! On the surface her interactions with strangers might look phony, but she is far from a phony. She will speak her mind, and she expects people to do the same.

    Yes, sometimes she’s dramatic, and it also comes out in an uncontrollable manner. For example, we were at Dennys over the holidays and I was looking over her receipt from Bath & Body Works. I noticed they didn’t apply the sale to her items. Immediately, she went into fret mode: "How dare they" steal her money, her voice escalated, and she was sharing her angry feelings for everyone in Dennys to hear until I talked her down from the ledge. But I kept having to reassure her not to worry; we'll get her money back. I ate fast, and drove her back to the store. She was happy.

    You just have to know how to disarm them when they fret or get angry. And never let them do too much for you without reciprocating. And never short change them!

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    Quote Originally Posted by bologna View Post
    I've known a literally psychopathic ENFJ, who was able to smooth-talk others and manipulate them in very self-serving ways. He had also killed a guy and is now in jail again after having violated parole. That parole violation was caused by him manipulating his straight roommate into sleeping with him on several occasions, which eventually caused tension between the two and led to violence. He was my best friend for a while.
    He probably is a Psychopath. Can't really put the blame on the MBTI type for it.

    How sickening psychopaths are? To make it worse they are actually quite charming.

    Urghhh!

    My sister knows one. My sister and her friends try their best to not associate her. But she is so good at using the sympathy card she somehow manages to get herself involved in others' lives (in a sense she manages to get help from others). Urghhhh! I feel annoyed at my sister for falling for her sympathy manipulation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cloud of Thunder View Post
    It seems that ENFJs have the biggest reputation out of all the types for being warm and fuzzy. But can anyone think of any examples, real or fictional, of ENFJs who've turned towards the dark side?
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    Technically speaking, people are evil on an individual to individual basis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TopherRed View Post
    Technically speaking, people are evil on an individual to individual basis.
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    A man creates. A parasite says, 'What will the neighbors think?'
    A man invents. A parasite says, 'Watch out, or you might tread on the toes of God... '


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    Quote Originally Posted by Rasofy View Post
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