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[NF] Do Women Try and Fatten Up Boyfriends?

cafe

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I didn't try to fatten my husband up, but I could tell when we were dating that he would probably become overweight, even though he seemed an average weight at the time. I prefer heavier men -- masculine and muscular, but nicely padded. Unfortunately when you get to middle age it starts to take a toll on you. After we get moved, I've got to work on improving our diet so irreparable damage isn't done if it hasn't been done already. I need to eat better and tone up as well.
 

Hyacinth

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Nope, in fact the opposite. My boyfriend and I motivate each other to make healthier eating choices and stick to our diet. :)
 

chickpea

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he tries to fatten me up
 

Lexicon

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No, ew. I want someone I'm with to remain healthy. And I'm not attracted to unhealthy physiques, be it bones or bulge. I don't need anyone to look like a model, just be healthy. My ISFJ ex became a WoW addict, his 6'3" frame hitting 280lb, & his overall health became a concern, to me.

My other exes always tried to do what [MENTION=7991]chana[/MENTION] said. Which bugged me, because I'm pretty neurotic about that sort of thing, & don't like being told how much I should or should not eat. :dry:
 

Eugene Watson VIII

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Don't thiink so. It's natural for it to happen after marriage though
 

jcloudz

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not a girl but im definitely attracted to chubby guys. i find them sexy.
 
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