My INFJ ex just left me for an INFP guy. She tells me he's perfection.
My ex is very combative and verbally abusive, doesn't even realize she's being insulting she's that unhealthy from a non loving home (her Mom's a menace).
I think it's just initial bliss of the newness every new person brings along..I mean anyone can be perfect for a date or a week or two.
The INFP is divorced with a child. That to me shows he has screwed up in marriage. I on the other hand, I haven't and have never been married.
Also think eventually she'll see he's either spending more time with the child and she'll feel like she's less important, or he'll spend more time with her and she'll think he's a bad guy (father).
Could you tell me what you think about this? What are your thoughts?
How do you handle being shouted at?
He might just be a rebound. A friend of mine has talked to my ex and he told me he doesn't think this new guy is going to last...doesn't think he's a very good guy.
Sorry to post so much.