Hey everyone!! I am in a relationship with an INFJ and really would like INFJ help here.
I recently notice I don't feel as secure around my SO as I usually am. It's because my SO is insecure and I believe projects this anxiety onto me. In turn she wonders why I am insecure then her empathy locks on to my 'pseudo' insecurity and the downward spiral is on.
Now, I just want to love her. I told her I'm not alarmed and just want to love her. That it's as simple as that. I asked her to find a way and we sit down, I just will listen, and she can tell me how she feels about everything I've done. I just want to understand.
She was broken by her parents very early as a child I believe. What would you do if you were in my shoes? I feel like I may remind her often that I love her. Nothing else matters.
Please, Please, Please give your thoughts!! Relationship help needed here I can see light at the end of this tunnel I just feel for her!