[ENFJ] ENFJ please

[1130210]

Hi. How can I spot an ENFJ in real life.. I know what there personality is. Rebellious...outgoing..crazy awesome. Well that's how I would describe it lol. I just want to meet some ENFJs. So I can familiarize myself with their amazing personality.

I had one ENFJ which I loved in my town but now thats all gone. Bcuz of somebody else. Well I thought maybe ESFJs but they're too ditzy for me... no offense to them. They are wonderful people.

 

[sleuthiness]

Can you be more verb-specific than "spot"?

 

[Neutralpov]

There is a thread on how to spot an ENFJ a mile off. You might check that.

 

[Thinkist]

Right... what I'm curious about is, how can you tell apart an ENFJ from an ESFJ? Both Fe-dom, they're so similar on the surface.

 

[Neutralpov]

Thinkist have you searched the threads for this topic? I am sure there are posts already on this topic. Being an ENFJ I am not at all like an ESFJ though I can see that the cheerful sociability appears the same on the surface distance.

 

[skylights]

they seem ExFJ and do the Ni thousand yard stare.

 

[Domino]

They boil the air out of the room.

Are you seeking a guy, a girl... or both?

 

[Domino]

Thinkist have you searched the threads for this topic? I am sure there are posts already on this topic. Being an ENFJ I am not at all like an ESFJ though I can see that the cheerful sociability appears the same on the surface distance.

Same here. The ESFJ's Ne feels and behaves a lot differently from the Ni-dominated ENFJ.

 

[Thinkist]

Thinkist have you searched the threads for this topic? I am sure there are posts already on this topic. Being an ENFJ I am not at all like an ESFJ though I can see that the cheerful sociability appears the same on the surface distance.

I'll look into it....

I'm just recalling a couple of my ENFJ teachers who really resembled my ESFJ mother. Maybe the S/N isn't too strong (my mother once mistyped as an ENFJ... could just be the Ne piquing). Seems they also resemble each other when the teritary function develops.

 

[jixmixfix]

Just go to a Tupperware party.

 

[Neutralpov]

Just go to a Tupperware party.

You could not drag me to one so well played. That alone would part the sea of NFJs and SFs easily

 

[Neutralpov]

An easy way to tell is get them 1-on-1, then try having a deep intuitive and hypothetical conversation and see if you get the blank SF face. I also find that SFs do not easily get hints or listen well when stressed or, GASP, hurt. ENFJs pick up on implications very easily

 

[skylights]

^ too easily, even. with no offense meant. ENFs are swift to jump to personal conclusions.

I also find that SFs do not easily get hints or listen well when stressed or, GASP, hurt.

actually, i find that the ESFJs i know are quite swift to pick up on hints. and i do not honestly know anyone who listens well when stressed. an SF might ignore you externally but an NJ will cut you off internally before you even start speaking.

 

[jixmixfix]

That alone would part the sea of NFJs and SFs easily

It units them in perfect harmony.

 

[Esoteric Wench]

an SF might ignore you externally but an NJ will cut you off internally before you even start speaking.

^^^^
This. So true. +1.

 

[Beargryllz]

Hi. How can I spot an ENFJ in real life.. I know what there personality is. Rebellious...outgoing..crazy awesome. Well that's how I would describe it lol. I just want to meet some ENFJs. So I can familiarize myself with their amazing personality.

I had one ENFJ which I loved in my town but now thats all gone. Bcuz of somebody else. Well I thought maybe ESFJs but they're too ditzy for me... no offense to them. They are wonderful people.

As a nursing student, I would suggest that you injure yourself and visit the hospital. You will find lots of them there.

I think half of my class is xNFJ, though this may be an aberration.

 

[Neutralpov]

^^^^
This. So true. +1.

What did you say?

 

[Esoteric Wench]