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    Cool ENFJ please

    Hi. How can I spot an ENFJ in real life.. I know what there personality is. Rebellious...outgoing..crazy awesome. Well that's how I would describe it lol. I just want to meet some ENFJs. So I can familiarize myself with their amazing personality.

    I had one ENFJ which I loved in my town but now thats all gone. Bcuz of somebody else. Well I thought maybe ESFJs but they're too ditzy for me... no offense to them. They are wonderful people.

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    Can you be more verb-specific than "spot"?

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    There is a thread on how to spot an ENFJ a mile off. You might check that.
    Extroverted (E) 67.74% Introverted (I) 32.26%
    Intuitive (N) 51.72% Sensing (S) 48.28%
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    Right... what I'm curious about is, how can you tell apart an ENFJ from an ESFJ? Both Fe-dom, they're so similar on the surface.
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    Thinkist have you searched the threads for this topic? I am sure there are posts already on this topic. Being an ENFJ I am not at all like an ESFJ though I can see that the cheerful sociability appears the same on the surface distance.
    Extroverted (E) 67.74% Introverted (I) 32.26%
    Intuitive (N) 51.72% Sensing (S) 48.28%
    Feeling (F) 51.61% Thinking (T) 48.39%
    Judging (J) 69.44% Perceiving (P) 30.56%

    Type 1 Perfectionism |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
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    they seem ExFJ and do the Ni thousand yard stare.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Neutralpov View Post
    Thinkist have you searched the threads for this topic? I am sure there are posts already on this topic. Being an ENFJ I am not at all like an ESFJ though I can see that the cheerful sociability appears the same on the surface distance.
    Same here. The ESFJ's Ne feels and behaves a lot differently from the Ni-dominated ENFJ.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Neutralpov View Post
    Thinkist have you searched the threads for this topic? I am sure there are posts already on this topic. Being an ENFJ I am not at all like an ESFJ though I can see that the cheerful sociability appears the same on the surface distance.
    I'll look into it....

    I'm just recalling a couple of my ENFJ teachers who really resembled my ESFJ mother. Maybe the S/N isn't too strong (my mother once mistyped as an ENFJ... could just be the Ne piquing). Seems they also resemble each other when the teritary function develops.
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