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    Default How to Attract NFs in online dating profiles.

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    I'll tell you how not to attract an NF:

    "I LYK HAVIN A LAFF N GOIN OUT WIV MA MATES ON DA TOWN LOL. IM A PROPPA PARTY ANIMAL AND I LUV MAH PPL.

    DNT HAEV TIEM FRO ANY1 DAT ISNT UP 4 SUM FUN XOXOXOXOXOX HEHEHEHEHEHE"

    Personally, such adverts make me want to strangle the author.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pmj85 View Post
    I'll tell you how not to attract an NF:

    "I LYK HAVIN A LAFF N GOIN OUT WIV MA MATES ON DA TOWN LOL. IM A PROPPA PARTY ANIMAL AND I LUV MAH PPL.

    DNT HAEV TIEM FRO ANY1 DAT ISNT UP 4 SUM FUN XOXOXOXOXOX HEHEHEHEHEHE"

    Personally, such adverts make me want to strangle the author.
    Im pretty sure its a trolllolol
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    These days, I often feel that 98% of the internet is trololol.

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    Say smart things!
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    I wouldn't know, I've never been on an online dating site. Send me a link to one & I'll report back w/ which ones attracted me.
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    Be yourself, carry on intelligent conversation, and be nice!
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    Quote Originally Posted by iwakar View Post
    Say smart things!


    Proper spelling, grammar and punctuation.
    Show that you enjoy life. List specific things that you like and show that you're willing to share those with others.
    Be honest, do not lie or embellish anything about yourself.
    Demonstrate a desire and ability to have conversations. Be flexible and spontaneous (if possible).
    Be nice/pleasant/understanding.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    If you mean just by the description in the profile as well as the other info such as hobbies, turn-on/offs, etc, I think the main one I would look for is a sense of honesty and sincerity. I'm not looking for a perfect person and anyone saying how great he/she is would probably get points docked. Some creativity and humour in the description would be a plus point. As well as having some interesting hobbies/likes/passions, something that would tweak my curiosity.

    Edit : Oh yeah, the spelling, grammar thingy that ceecee mentioned. I'm no grammar Nazi, but at least show you care enough to proof-read
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    Glitter is a must.

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