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    awareness of big-picture time perspective and humanitarian interests. extra points for quirky things.

    but of course there is the small issue that i have always avoided dating sites.

    there was one girl i saw on one once, who i never had the courage to message. i still have a fondness for her.

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    Er....quirky sense of humor. Actually reads books...name a few recent reads. Nothing Flash. They can be NY best sellers even. Just prove that you do more than read Cosmo, and other gossip mags.
    Have a creative interest....actually having interests at all that you are passionate about. You can not believe how many people out there don't seem to have interests?
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    I don't know about other NF's, but I would probably respond to something that serious expressed a commitment to God and to making the world a better place.

    But the important thing is to be yourself, because you want to attract someone who will want you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post


    Proper spelling, grammar and punctuation.
    Show that you enjoy life. List specific things that you like and show that you're willing to share those with others.
    Be honest, do not lie or embellish anything about yourself.
    Demonstrate a desire and ability to have conversations. Be flexible and spontaneous (if possible).
    Be nice/pleasant/understanding.
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    I like to see good taste.

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    Of course, good looks don't hurt, as long as they aren't accompanied by arrogance.
    I like to see signs of intelligence, kindness, and passion for SOMETHING. I like when the profile is "relatable"; the person is not so good-looking, so cool, so accomplished that you can't imagine they'd ever be interested in you. A bit of vulnerability & humility goes a long way in that regard.

    I don't do online dating anymore though. I find dating people connected to your social sphere makes more sense. That social connection is there for good reason - you have commonalities that can't be defined easily on an internet profile.

    *stole photo from another INFP on another forum.
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    -Talk about your ideals and passions
    -Something about personal growth/development
    -Something expressing your uniqueness and not-cookie-cutter-ness
    -Pictures showing your warm, fuzzy, socialness?
    -Emphasize how important relationships are to you
    -Talk about volunteering you do
    -Maybe something about whatever religion/spirituality that may be important to you

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    I want a picture of a girl with a bright red wig, holographic-lens sunglasses & a scary Machiavellian grin while doing a giant hit from a skull bong
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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    I like to see good taste.

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    Of course, good looks don't hurt, as long as they aren't accompanied by arrogance.
    I like to see signs of intelligence, kindness, and passion for SOMETHING. I like when the profile is "relatable"; the person is not so good-looking, so cool, so accomplished that you can't imagine they'd ever be interested in you. A bit of vulnerability & humility goes a long way in that regard.

    I don't do online dating anymore though. I find dating people connected to your social sphere makes more sense. That social connection is there for good reason - you have commonalities that can't be defined easily on an internet profile.

    *stole photo from another INFP on another forum.
    hmm....I don't look for relatable in that sense. Mind you I have dated eccentric millionaires now so I believe I can have my way with anyone if desired.
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    MORE ENFJ RESPONSES PLEASE.
    With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.

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    I want a girl with a mind like a diamond
    I want a girl who knows what's best
    I want a girl with shoes that cut
    And eyes that burn like cigarettes

    I want a girl with a short skirt and a lonnnng.......
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