awareness of big-picture time perspective and humanitarian interests. extra points for quirky things.
but of course there is the small issue that i have always avoided dating sites.
there was one girl i saw on one once, who i never had the courage to message. i still have a fondness for her.
01-02-2012, 09:19 PM #11
01-02-2012, 09:21 PM #12
Er....quirky sense of humor. Actually reads books...name a few recent reads. Nothing Flash. They can be NY best sellers even. Just prove that you do more than read Cosmo, and other gossip mags.
Have a creative interest....actually having interests at all that you are passionate about. You can not believe how many people out there don't seem to have interests?Currently submerged under an avalanche of books and paper work. I may come back up for air from time to time.
Real life awaits and she is a demanding mistress.
01-02-2012, 09:38 PM #13
I don't know about other NF's, but I would probably respond to something that serious expressed a commitment to God and to making the world a better place.
But the important thing is to be yourself, because you want to attract someone who will want you.
01-02-2012, 10:37 PM #14
01-02-2012, 11:13 PM #15
I like to see good taste.
Of course, good looks don't hurt, as long as they aren't accompanied by arrogance.
I like to see signs of intelligence, kindness, and passion for SOMETHING. I like when the profile is "relatable"; the person is not so good-looking, so cool, so accomplished that you can't imagine they'd ever be interested in you. A bit of vulnerability & humility goes a long way in that regard.
I don't do online dating anymore though. I find dating people connected to your social sphere makes more sense. That social connection is there for good reason - you have commonalities that can't be defined easily on an internet profile.
*stole photo from another INFP on another forum."Charlotte sometimes dreams a wall around herself. But it's always with love - So much love it looks like everything else. Charlotte Sometimes - So far away, glass sealed and pretty." - The Cure
INFP | 4w5 sp/sx - 451| RLUEI - Primary Inquisitive
01-02-2012, 11:18 PM #16
-Talk about your ideals and passions
-Something about personal growth/development
-Something expressing your uniqueness and not-cookie-cutter-ness
-Pictures showing your warm, fuzzy, socialness?
-Emphasize how important relationships are to you
-Talk about volunteering you do
-Maybe something about whatever religion/spirituality that may be important to you
01-02-2012, 11:43 PM #17
I want a picture of a girl with a bright red wig, holographic-lens sunglasses & a scary Machiavellian grin while doing a giant hit from a skull bongRCUAI
"Man is free, but his freedom ceases when he has no faith in it."
01-02-2012, 11:46 PM #18With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.
01-02-2012, 11:46 PM #19
MORE ENFJ RESPONSES PLEASE.With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.
01-02-2012, 11:48 PM #20
I want a girl with a mind like a diamond
I want a girl who knows what's best
I want a girl with shoes that cut
And eyes that burn like cigarettes
I want a girl with a short skirt and a lonnnng.......Ni/Ti/Fe/Si
4w5 5w4 1w9~Torah observant, Christ inspired~
Life Path 11
The more one loves God, the more it is that having nothing in the world means everything, and the less one loves God, the more it is that having everything in the world means nothing.
Do not resist an evil person, but to him who strikes you on the one cheek, offer also the other. ~Matthew 5:39