Oh boy, so the last few weeks have been intense to say the least. So intense that I've managed to unhinge a couple friends.
I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. Despite my efforts to help my friends it seems as if they find me too opinionated, naggy or forceful. I am pretty laid back compared to how I used to be and I'm not sure if people are just being assholes lately or what the big deal is.
I noticed most of these friends were ENTJs that I've been having issues with. I've been thriving and developing closer relationships with other ENFJs...but the ENTJs, holy shit. I've had my head bitten off by 3 different ENTJs as well as an INTP.
Either way, my friendships have been lack luster...it makes me sad. I wish I didn't care so much about what my friends thought of me. It would make life a lot easier.
Does other ENFJs find themselves severely impacted by the relationships around them? I mean, I know so many people who genuinely don't give a shit what people think of them and are happy about it...why can't I be that way?!