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    My husband and I have a friend (ENFJ), who has a very large number of people that he says "I love you," to. My question is...what does he say to his wife or what would someone who does that say to their girlfriend to tell her that he really actually is in love with her?

    I mean, the big moment in a lot of my relationships was when the guy said "I love you" for the first time. But if a guy says that to everyone, what does he say to his girl?

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    You're the love of my life? Soul Mate? Something like that.

    Why don't you ask him?

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    I would ask him, but I don't want him to think that I'm criticizing him. I know it comes from his heart - he's just one of those people who loves everyone. It used to make me really uncomfortable, but it doesn't any more, because I realize that it is just the way he is and he's not being fake. I would ask his wife, but she is big time cold fish who would probably think I'm prying. And yet still, I am curious.

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    He probably reserves something special for her that he doesn't do or say for other people?

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    My ENFJ calls me a lot of pet names. He also says "I love you" several times a day. He only says "I love you" to other people when they've done something he thinks is awesome.
    "Don't complicate my piece of mind."
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