I want one of those old fashioned families, minus the sexism/ageism. I don't know if I want to be married or not, however. I would like to be, but it'd be bad if we have different punishment styles. One thing I cannot stand is when parents slap their kids or hit them; even spanking them makes me want to call CPS. Yelling at them is useless as well. So, parenting in different ways would be a huge problem for me. You don't just yell at them or boss them around, regardless of age. A stern talk to and words of love is all they need to correct their behavior if they do something.
But I do want kids with one of these combinations: 1 girl, 1 boy, 1 boy and two girls, 1 boy and 1 girl, or twin boys/girls.
It's really complicated...Because if I adopt and I'm single, I'll just take one girl/boy. But if I'm married then I want more kids...maybe.