Well, I think INFJs are extremely conscious of discrepancies between what people say and what they do. At first it may be more of a feeling of disquiet or nervousness, not quite being able to put your finger on it; later it becomes a lot more obvious, perhaps when you're at that "putting the big picture together" stage.
"In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay one invincible summer."
A Christian's life may be the only Bible some people ever read.
"The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them" Maya Angelou.
I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ" Gandhi
I know everyone talks about judging functions but I think Ne is very valuable in this regard. It allows you to compare and contrast past and present behaviours and find patterns among them - you can then explore these to discover why person does certain things in certain situations. It also has the value of providing broader models of human behaviour why you can apply (with some alterations if necessary) to particular people and circumstances.
INFP 4w5 so/sp
I've dreamt in my life dreams that have stayed with me ever after, and changed my ideas;
they've gone through and through me, like wine through water, and altered the colour of my mind.
- Emily Bronte
i see it and usually it's from the get go. but i
have a very hard time articulating it. because
i just see 'vibes' and sense mostly non tangible
it's gotten me into a lot of trouble with other
people, trying to explain what it is that i "see"
or "sense". because most people can only see
what i see after it's too late--like something
happened to them and confirms all my bitching.
they're more reactive compared to my preventive
every normal man must be tempted, at times,
to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag,
and begin slitting throats.
I can see that quite a few have challenged the suggestion that INTJs could excell in reading people. Well, the MBTI also suggests that INTJs have Fi as their tertiary preference yet that's sometimes not that easy to believe when reading these forums
Quite a few type descriptions say something like this: "Fellow workers of INTJs often feel as if the INTJ can see right through them, and finds them wanting. This tendency of people to feel transparent in the presence of the INTJ often result in relationships which have psychological distance." On the other hand, it might actually sound more logical that INTPs could be even better equipped for such reading.
I am not writing here to judge who does or doesn't have this ability. I am just curious to read any comments regarding it now that I sense some of it in me as well.
Quite a few type descriptions say something like this: "Fellow workers of INTJs often feel as if the INTJ can see right through them, and finds them wanting. This tendency of people to feel transparent in the presence of the INTJ often result in relationships which have psychological distance."
INTJs being good lie detectors doesn't necessarily equate to seeing through people.