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    yeah...the flow of conversation is awesome...i'm having issues atm due to what i mentioned above tho...it sucks.
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    I put an add on Craig's list, and went out with an ENFP a couple of times. Once I hung out with her for 9 hours straight.

    She was impressed by some insight and analysis I had...at one point.

    I got tired of driving an hour to hang out with her, so I only went those two times. She sort of expected to have had sex with me by that point, since according to her, "Usually start having sex with someone within two minutes of kissing them. I already fantasized about having sex with you."

    Probably one of the main deal-breakers for me is that she'd call me up late at night, drunk, saying, "I'm bored. Entertain me."

    Basically I told her to call someone else when she get's like that.

    I wanted to tell her, "Listen, I'm not some anti-boredom device." Anyway, basically I broke the thing of because I realized it felt like a chore to drive over there and hang out with her, and I didn't feel like I could meet her sexual needs.

    It's great to feel I'm making progress in romantic life, but I'm just really not that desperate.

    edit:

    Since that time I've met another ENFP in my main social group, who is three years younger. She seems nice and intelligent, and has two well-adjusted, intelligent kids.

    She seems like she will be a good friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BAJ View Post
    She sort of expected to have had sex with me by that point, since according to her, "Usually start having sex with someone within two minutes of kissing them. I already fantasized about having sex with you."

    Probably one of the main deal-breakers for me is that she'd call me up late at night, drunk, saying, "I'm bored. Entertain me."

    Basically I told her to call someone else when she get's like that.
    That girls are raped, that two boys knife a third,
    Were axioms to him, who'd never heard
    Of any world where promises were kept,
    Or one could weep because another wept.

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    god...it's so like me to say i'm bored come talk to me
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    Almost everyone important to me in my life is INFP.. I'm not sure how that worked out that way, but it did. So, suffice to say, I enjoy them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kyuuei View Post
    Almost everyone important to me in my life is INFP.. I'm not sure how that worked out that way, but it did. So, suffice to say, I enjoy them.
    I am still baffled by how we seem to gravitate towards each other. There are 4 ENFPs in my life. They make up approximately 7% of the population, yet I know 4? That seems like an over-representation to me. I suppose it's logical to argue that they are over-represented in terms of my circle of friends, but I also work with one, and we get along really well. She's more ENTJish at work (as long as she remembers to write her list of things to do!) but I know it's a facade. Every so often when I'm bored I indulge her Ne. I know we'll just end up talking about times where we did something in good faith but ended up looking stupid...
    That girls are raped, that two boys knife a third,
    Were axioms to him, who'd never heard
    Of any world where promises were kept,
    Or one could weep because another wept.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adasta View Post
    I am still baffled by how we seem to gravitate towards each other. There are 4 ENFPs in my life. They make up approximately 7% of the population, yet I know 4? That seems like an over-representation to me. I suppose it's logical to argue that they are over-represented in terms of my circle of friends, but I also work with one, and we get along really well. She's more ENTJish at work (as long as she remembers to write her list of things to do!) but I know it's a facade. Every so often when I'm bored I indulge her Ne. I know we'll just end up talking about times where we did something in good faith but ended up looking stupid...
    Wait, (does the math) you don't know that many people I take it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    Wait, (does the math) you don't know that many people I take it?
    Define "know"
    That girls are raped, that two boys knife a third,
    Were axioms to him, who'd never heard
    Of any world where promises were kept,
    Or one could weep because another wept.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adasta View Post
    I am still baffled by how we seem to gravitate towards each other. There are 4 ENFPs in my life. They make up approximately 7% of the population, yet I know 4? That seems like an over-representation to me. I suppose it's logical to argue that they are over-represented in terms of my circle of friends, but I also work with one, and we get along really well. She's more ENTJish at work (as long as she remembers to write her list of things to do!) but I know it's a facade. Every so often when I'm bored I indulge her Ne. I know we'll just end up talking about times where we did something in good faith but ended up looking stupid...
    She sounds like me, I've been told the same about being at work, and I also need a list if I am to stay on track with anything that isn't second nature to me.
    I'm not sure why I gravitate towards them.. I don't pretend to want to know why, but it is curious. I've had people in my life for years, and made them take the test, then wondered if the test was somewhat broken since they were getting the same results.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adasta View Post
    Define "know"
    Hmm.. I don't know. I guess it makes sense. By my calculation you've typed 57 or less people. (4 is 7 percent of 57.)
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    06/13 10:51:08 shortnsweet: no you!!
    06/13 10:51:12 shortnsweet: go do your things and my things too!
    06/13 10:51:23 five sounds: oh hell naw
    06/13 10:51:55 shortnsweet: !!!!
    06/13 10:51:57 shortnsweet: (cries)
    06/13 10:52:19 RiftsWRX: You two are like furbies stuck in a shoe box

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