Yeah, back on track to what I said, I think my INFP 9 friend is absolutely delightful. I love her to bits and pieces, she is totally sweet, has diplomatic intelligence, and intuitively can pinpoint things about people.
Okay - so there's this guy, right? She tells her mom "I think he's probably a womanizer, an alcoholic, and all around just trouble." SHE SAID THIS RIGHT UPON MEETING HIM. I came to a similar conclusion, but I had factual things I had noticed: I add things up over time, and add pieces of what I'm shown together, and I'm quite observant about it ...more so than some people...but she saw it RIGHT AWAY.
He had to say a couple of things to me outright before I saw it. Her ESFJ mother didn't see it at all until there was a meltdown. I didn't find out that she had intuitively picked this up about him until after he had the meltdown with ESFJ mother, and she was like "OMG MY INFP DAUGHTER SAW THIS COMING." And I was like ...yeah...I haven't liked him for a couple of weeks...but I didn't see it right away upon meeting him, either, lol.