And that.I don't find them hard to read or understand, not any more than the next person. A part of me thinks they resent that I read them rather well; they're not used to it & maybe they like feeling mysterious to others. I think they feel some relief too though. Everyone wants to be known, even if that leaves them vulnerable. I think this is why I don't find them as "impressive" as others do; they're just human to me.
I can't really tell them what I see or they shy away, feeling so exposed, and I don't want them to, I want to get closer.
I have one close female INFJ friend, and we have a grand time together though.
Will expand on this when my shoulder is less sore ... I would like to add to the topic, so this post will serve as my reminder.