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[NF] Have any of you NF males mistaken yourselves for gay?

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ReflecTcelfeR

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My mother has, a couple of my friends have and I have simply because of them. I come swiftly back to me being straight. I imagine myself living with another male my entire life and it doesn't seem feasible.

Soooo, yes.
 

Unkindloving

Lungs & Lips Locked
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A lot of the male NFs I've known tend to have this aversion toward actual homosexual things, but they also tend to admit bi-ness eventually.
Also, the ones I've dated or known in passing probably get mistaken for it due to how they come across as awkward and flimsy-wristed, on top of having a multitude of female friends and then fawning over other males to some degree.

I know I've been mistaken for a lesbian in the past when people weren't seeing me make kissyfaces with the boys, but I'm not and still don't have an aversion to lesbians or being open about my :heart: toward the women in my life who I am close with or respect. :shrug:
I'm more skeptical of the people who shirk away from it and try to puff up their man-or-lady feathers in attempt to validate their straightness. Kinda does the opposite in my book lol
 

Seymour

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Yes. Except for the mistaken part.
 
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