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    There was a point in my life where I was very confused where I questioned it but only out of pure insecurity. Part of it was that I got molested by my stepfather as a child and it had some odd psychological effect on me and also at the time I was going under some extreme amounts of anxiety and a lot of other crazy thoughts were going through my head. Needless to say that was horrible part of my life and I can say with 100% honesty that I am straight. So is that what you wanted to know? Although I am not sure what happened to me had anything to do with being type related.
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    I wonder if it just a thing for F males, in general, to be questioned, because of society's standards?

    I have a pretty close male friend who's an ESFP. He's never doubted his sexuality at all, he's as heterosexual as they come. But even if he doesn't dress flamboyantly or hit on dudes or whatever it is people expect gay dudes to do, he's got a certain....theatricality and sensitivity about his demeanor that makes a lot of people peg him as gay at first sight. And if he tries to laugh it off and say that he isn't, they insist that he's in denial.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mae View Post
    ... How does one mistake themselves as gay? Is it like, "I sure wish he'd put his penis up my butt! Ohh, wait. No, I was just mistaken."?
    Anyway... my SF said that people just assumed he was gay growing up, females immediately stuck him in the friend zone, etc. But, I'm pretty sure he's never questioned his sexuality. Maybe it's just a common F male thing. A certain look and behaviors. It's been my observation that a lot of NF guys particularly have a "softness" about them. And as people tend to think of most gay men as effeminate...
    it didn't take me long to realize I was gay (I was 12 lol), but I know some people how have taken ages to figure it out
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    This is a very interesting topic. In my opinion, ENFJs are androgynous.

    I say this because I am an ENFJ woman in a relationship with an ENFJ man.

    My ENFJ man's behaviour, mannerisms and emotional responsiveness would make you question whether or not he was gay. He's very much straight. Some of my friends have asked if I'm his 'cover'. But we do things in private that prove he is very much a straight man. ;]

    My behaviour on the other hand is emotional but more reserved, I don't like nonsense, I'm less 'showy' than he is but I do have my moments that I go all out.

    Any who I stick with my statement. ENFJs are androgynous.

    Anyone agree? Disagree?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cranez View Post
    This is a very interesting topic. In my opinion, ENFJs are androgynous.

    I say this because I am an ENFJ woman in a relationship with an ENFJ man.

    My ENFJ man's behaviour, mannerisms and emotional responsiveness would make you question whether or not he was gay. He's very much straight. Some of my friends have asked if I'm his 'cover'. But we do things in private that prove he is very much a straight man. ;]

    My behaviour on the other hand is emotional but more reserved, I don't like nonsense, I'm less 'showy' than he is but I do have my moments that I go all out.

    Any who I stick with my statement. ENFJs are androgynous.

    Anyone agree? Disagree?
    i only know one enfj well, but i wouldn't call her androgynous at all. she's stereotypically feminine in a lot of ways.

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    I had some bi-sexual esq thoughts and thought that I may be bi-sexual, but as it stands now, that was mere sexual curiosity; I'm straight for the most part.

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    yes.

    I think I'm pretty gay...except for the part about lusting after the male anatomy. My attraction is very mild in that area. If that part were hot, I think it would actually make my life easier.

    I used to read all sorts of books about this topic. I have a copy of "Bisexuality and the Eroticism of Everyday life" somewhere.

    Eventually I decided that I'm probably not mostly gay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cranez View Post
    Any who I stick with my statement. ENFJs are androgynous.

    Anyone agree? Disagree?
    I'm married to one and he is in no way androgynous. He's this tall, totally hairy, Viking looking man.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    I really wouldn't think that type and sexuality are connected but . . .maybe I'm wrong?

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    No.
    I have not question my sexuality.
    And I will not question my sexuality.

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