Lily flower
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Ok, please explain this. My husband and I have an ENFJ friend, who has been our friend for at least a decade. Several times in the last couple of years he has come to us "enlightened" about our relationship.
The conversation usually goes along the lines of "I never realized until now how special our friendship is." or "I just realized what an amazing bond we all have." Each time he sounds really surprised, like he never thought of it before.
I don't really get it, because on our side, we have always known that we have something great. And I don't understand why it keeps happening. Does he forget in between that we are great friends, and then realize it again?
The conversation usually goes along the lines of "I never realized until now how special our friendship is." or "I just realized what an amazing bond we all have." Each time he sounds really surprised, like he never thought of it before.
I don't really get it, because on our side, we have always known that we have something great. And I don't understand why it keeps happening. Does he forget in between that we are great friends, and then realize it again?