I can't organize worth a darn, but I do get elected to those places frequently because I'm decent with people and articulate. As a student (but somewhat veteran) mechanic, I was "asked" by my foreman to represent our diesel garage's interests at SGA meetings. Otherwise, I'd flee to my pile of stuff and hide behind it growling and shedding fur.
I can't pretend to like anyone. No poker face on command. Spines jump out all over me. I'll cut you, white meat!! On the other hand, if I like you, I have trouble concealing that as well. Damned if you do, etc.
eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
AIS Holland code
I know several male ENFJ's and no female ENFJ's. My impression of the ENFJ's that I know is that they would not be interested in meaningless sex. They want a lifelong soul mate relationship of the highest level.
Ironically I will agree with you, but only about the dudes. ENFJ chicks are totally down with getting their freak on casually.
With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.
Find an older ENFJ please. They are a much better example of the group than a younin. And I was surprised to find I had several ENFJ friends when I persuaded every person I know to take the MBTI. Turns out ENFJs are hard to spot and are alllll chameleoney (they need a lizard emoticon...) even for another ENFJ!