I am unsure if this is an NF or F or Human trait but i'll ask here as i have a feeling i'll get most responses in this section.
I always try and see the best in people and in personal relationships feel a sense of sadness and disappointment when i find them to be human beings, yet am aware we are all capable of pain and hurt towards those close to us and those we have nothing in common with but i like to look past flaws and see the best of them and their potential.
If you also look for the best in people, are you happy with this even if you may feel a sense of disappointment? Is this an area within your personality you'd like to change? Do you feel that although aware of it, you don't want to change because this is essentially who you are?
I know in myself (at this moment in time) that i don't want to change the fact i see the best in people. Yes, sometimes i learn hard lessons and realise i need to toughen up but ultimately i learn new skills in coping with these situations.
Please add any other thoughts on the subject as i'm curious.
It's late, i'm tired and i'll post more tomorrow. Hope this makes sense.