I know I do. I'm a friggin recluse. while I'm the furthest thing from shy or soft spoken, when I get home, my first thought is
now, time to relax for 3-6 hours"
all throughout high school, I never desired being tied down by outside obligations if I could afford it. the idea of doing school, homework, hanging out with friends AND being involved in several school activities was like "my God, how can you breath?"
most of my time was spent in my room just thinking about what I wanted, what I should believe, human nature, and the general governing principles of the world. I had a few close friends, but aside from that, I never hung out with anyone or went to parties or sporting events. despite this, I was never lonely, but I would get irritable if anyone disturbed me.
while this is very unusual behavior for an extrovert, ENFPs are by far the most introverted extrovert. So, is typical of ENFPs are is it mostly a Self Preservation/Sexual instinctual subtype thing?