You're normal. According to APS you would be a Choleric in Affection. Cholerics in Affection appear to want deep personal relationships, but in reality do not. When approached for love and affection they will most likely turn their back, and when approached for a deep personal relationship they will walk away from it. The explanation for this is very simple; they must be shown love and affection according to their terms. They will not accept a deep personal relationship if their terms are not met. - Excerpt from The Missing Link by Richard & Phyllis Arno.