just need some support/reassurance, i need to know someone thinks like me, and can relate to this
do you ever feel like you have an imagine of someone and want them to be the way you think they should be?
do you feel like youve basically been the same person but more mature as the years go by but see others around you changing (...for the worst) and wonder how they became that way and WISH they could go back to how they were?
...hey! maybe I can change you back!
do you have a small close group of best friends, but everyone has grown to be so different but you are the CENTER and you feel like you are grasping to hold the group together? Constantly mending arguments and getting put in the middle? And honestly feel like you are the only thing that can fix it?
i can't end friendships, i can let them run their course, but i cannot pull myself out of a friendship and END it, even though I know there's no benefit from it, except for the fact that I think I can fix them, and make them the best of what they can be, make them who they want to be before they let distractions in their life.
I feel like I am judgemental. I feel like I'm too critical of the world and of people that I know could do better and are meant for better, and when i see them do things that i find ridiculous and stupid, I can't help but point it out.
Please, someone tell me you feel the same way.
I really need to end a friendship with an INFJ because it's just stressing me out. I tried to explain myself but I've been doorslammed.
I'm close with an ESFP but she makes just as stupid decisions, but I can't lose her too.
I wish we were all the same people as when we were in highschool, talking about boys, copying homework and having sleepovers...when lifestyles didn't matter and we didn't have to live the same way.
I feel like no one is like me. like I am alone in this NF world and I am a monster.