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    Okay.. some personal and not so personal questions. I'm bored and curious and ya, whatever.. I just wanted to see if there is any pattern in this.

    NFP's.. have you had the desire to move alot? Have you followed through with it? If you do have this desire.. why do you think this is the case?

    How about driving record. Any NFP's with perfect driving records? Good? Bad? Ugly?

    Any NFP's notice themselves having "credit problems" from time to time? (This is rather personal I know).. but I find it funny that myself, and the two other ENFP's I am friends with all went through a rather rough patch in our early twenties where we just kinda went credit crazy.. and didn't do that hot of a job at paying ontime. All of us our older now and finally getting over the days of debt issues.. and I realize that this might not be type related at all, but I will be honest when I say that my ISTJ/ESFJ and even ENFJ buddies have always viewed their credit as the utmost important thing.

    (All NF's welcome to join in)..

    Oh OH-- almost forgot, one other little random question.. any ENFP's ever notice a patience issue that results in a one handed paint job with nails? lol
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    I don't move, or change jobs, but I've felt very trapped about that. My driving record is very good. Yeah, I have credit issues, or more like had them.. and bills are a bit of a struggle, bill pay helps. I just drove into the city office to pay my utilities a day late last monday, then I paid the next in advance so I wouldn't have to remember.

    My patience has gone way up the roof in the last 5 years or so, especially when it comes to dealing with people and with projects. I think it's because I've been in the same place for so long I can see the result of my actions years back, I know that what I do now will have an effect, though maybe not in the short term.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huxley3112 View Post
    NFP's.. have you had the desire to move alot? Have you followed through with it? If you do have this desire.. why do you think this is the case?
    All the time. I get the urge to move every couple of years, I HATE being in one place for too long, it drives me crazy. I’ve moved a LOT in my life, states, countries, cities.

    I think a lot of the time is my inherent restlessness, and the thought that there is so much to see in the world, why be confined to one space for too long? You can always come back.

    Also, a lot of the time I have the urge to destroy everything around me, sever all contact with everyone I know and start all over again. Some times I just want to see everything I love burn. But that’s not exactly healthy.

    How about driving record. Any NFP's with perfect driving records? Good? Bad? Ugly?
    Hahaha! I got judged mightily on Friday for my mass of traffic offences, my record is officially in the ‘UGLY’ category, mainly speeding, but some other things thrown in. As of Monday I am an enforced active pedestrian for 3 months as I have had my license suspended. Oops.

    Any NFP's notice themselves having "credit problems" from time to time? (This is rather personal I know).. but I find it funny that myself, and the two other ENFP's I am friends with all went through a rather rough patch in our early twenties where we just kinda went credit crazy.. and didn't do that hot of a job at paying ontime. All of us our older now and finally getting over the days of debt issues.. and I realize that this might not be type related at all, but I will be honest when I say that my ISTJ/ESFJ and even ENFJ buddies have always viewed their credit as the utmost important thing.
    I had to declare bankruptcy when I was 27 due to a toxic ex. Part of it was my own problem with credit, but the majority was due to someone else. I am terrible at paying things on time though.

    Oh OH-- almost forgot, one other little random question.. any ENFP's ever notice a patience issue that results in a one handed paint job with nails? lol
    Yes. I frequently sport the one handed paint job. I’ve mastered it.


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    I can sit still for ages, but if I'm in a comfortable social atmosphere, there are times when I can't keep my mouth shut when it should be locked and zipped.

    I've never been in a wreck, and I've been driving for roughly 2 years. Considering the past, I've not proven to be the best driver, and there are times when monkeys behind the wheel make steam shoot out of my ears. I cope by assuming karma's going to make them die a humiliating kill death of choking on their own chewed up finger nail. If I don't imagine this scenario playing out in explicit detail, the amount of ravenous rage I experience actually pumps the Terror-Meter on CNN a couple of notches.

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    i'd moved 8 times by the time i was 12, so i think as a result of that i get bored and feel stuck being in the same place for too long. probably why i moved to the other side of the country for no real reason too.

    i don't have my driver's license but i'm pretty sure i'd be a horrible driver if i did.

    and i'm 20 and already have bad credit, i'm just horrible with money and bills and all those boring practical things.

    and YES hahaha i only have one hand done on my nails right now.

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    I am exactly like this.

    However, I might be SFP instead of NFP, but there you have it.

    When I want to move, I do, when I can't stand something, I get away from it. A judge told me when I was 21 that my driving record was one of the worst he'd ever seen that didn't contain any offenses related to alcohol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Qlip View Post
    I don't move, or change jobs, but I've felt very trapped about that. My driving record is very good. Yeah, I have credit issues, or more like had them.. and bills are a bit of a struggle, bill pay helps. I just drove into the city office to pay my utilities a day late last monday, then I paid the next in advance so I wouldn't have to remember.
    Oh no you've thought about it and are embarrassed about paying your utilities one day late? Ha ha ha..sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmie Dearest View Post
    Oh no you've thought about it and are embarrassed about paying your utilities one day late? Ha ha ha..sorry.
    Some people have responsibility.

    Apparently neither you or i have it. He should be laughing at us.

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    I respectfully disagree. While I'm a better driver than I was in my late teens and early twenties, and am more responsible than I was then as well, I don't feel at all bad about actually choosing to LIVE my life. I can't fathom being so docile I'd not move or stay at a job if I felt trapped. I don't allow anything to trap me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huxley3112 View Post
    Okay.. some personal and not so personal questions. I'm bored and curious and ya, whatever.. I just wanted to see if there is any pattern in this.

    NFP's.. have you had the desire to move alot? Have you followed through with it? If you do have this desire.. why do you think this is the case?

    How about driving record. Any NFP's with perfect driving records? Good? Bad? Ugly?

    Any NFP's notice themselves having "credit problems" from time to time? (This is rather personal I know).. but I find it funny that myself, and the two other ENFP's I am friends with all went through a rather rough patch in our early twenties where we just kinda went credit crazy.. and didn't do that hot of a job at paying ontime. All of us our older now and finally getting over the days of debt issues.. and I realize that this might not be type related at all, but I will be honest when I say that my ISTJ/ESFJ and even ENFJ buddies have always viewed their credit as the utmost important thing.

    (All NF's welcome to join in)..

    Oh OH-- almost forgot, one other little random question.. any ENFP's ever notice a patience issue that results in a one handed paint job with nails? lol
    So... why exactly do you want to see a "pattern", again?

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