Question for the Fe-crowd..how do you use Fe one-on-one? When there isn't a group goal to uphold? When there isn't a mission to fulfill and a group to direct? How does it work then?
To the previous question what happens when Fi-users come together:
Nothing. Literally, nothing. There's a bunch of laughs and giggles and that's it. No direction, no group mission, nothing. If you're lucky, someone will spontaneously blurt out 'lets do this!'. And if 'this' is something that doesn't require planning and is easily accessible and a shared interest amidst the group or at least neutral to most of the group, it'll work brilliantly and feel like a sitting by a campfire singing kumbaya. If not, it ends in endless bickering or apathy. Sometimes you'll see the group falling apart into groups of two or three. It's easier to use Fi on no more than 4 people at once and ideal one on one. Groups are not our thing.
I have that situation in our group. The two ISFJs don't step up coz they don't wanna rock the boat, the female xNTJ tries to Fe but ends up losing her patience and pulls the group together with Te, making everyone pissed that they have to follow an schedule during their free time, till the INTP steps up and goes, wtf, we're doing this, this way! Yes, the INTP. Of all people. I would do it, and I've tried, but I don't share many of their interests, and the INTP does, so he usually has some feel of what would be a good idea to do, while knowing what we can do and what won't take planning and organization to pull off. It's maddening.
I'll step in when I notice that the conflict is getting too high and too deeply rooted. That's when I take the Fe-dom seat, which fits me really poorly and try my hand at the whole harmonizing bit. Thankfully they know me well enough to usually appreciate the effort. I'll solve the conflict..but I won't be able to give them a mission or a goal. It's like herding cats. Usually, at that point, I end up giving the reigns to the female xNTJ or the INTP again.
We could *really* use an Fe-dom.