Ok, I am a first year med student. The whole class had to take this Meyers-Brigg test thing and then talk to a psychiatry resident to explain all our strengths and weakness' in regards to becoming doctors. I found out some very interesting stuff about myself but I am actually more interested in something I found out about someone else in my class.
My persona type is on the lef, and this is my first time here, a friend pointed me to this forum. Before I ask my question, here is a quick blurb about me. I am a bit of a goofball and everyone has fun when I am around, but everyone also wonders how the hell I got in the class with them. I do pretty well in classes as long as it interests me, but if the crap is boring, forget about it. I am a mess and probably the center of attention in the class of 70 people. My only problem is that some girls think I am flirting with them when I am not, and get upset when they find out I am not interested, and the shrink warned me about that.
Now enough about me, and lets get to my question.
I just found out that the girl who I can't keep my mind off of (for the last 9 months) is an INFJ. What I need you guys to tell me is how can I get to know this person better? Here is the problem, I can read almost anyone within a few minutes of chatting and then change my personality like a chameleon to mesh with theirs and make them comfortable.
I am very confident and speak my mind, but when I am sitting with this girl, I am so freaking nervous I lose all confidence and start to look like a total idiot. Even worst, I try to read her but get nothing?
This is not normal for me and I really wish I could get to know this person better, because she is the sweetest thing I have ever seen. The only thing I know about her is that she has strong convictions about what is right and wrong (from our ethics discussions) and very compassionate (from how she deals with everyone). She hangs out with no one (I don