Hey everyone! I've been lurking for a little while but I thought I'd finally introduce myself! I don't know that many NFs in real life so I'm glad I found you guys!
I have a question for the INFPs and I guess anyone who knows any. I know it's part of our type's personality to seem aloof/mysterious sometimes, but I find myself initiating all my friendships because no one ever invites me out or approaches me first! It feels like I'm invisible until I make myself talk more than I usually would, and while I do get positive feedback or whatever, it feels so discouraging sometimes! Like, do they really like me or am I just imposing on their time or something? And then I feel like I have to be this happy, upbeat person all the time, because if I was my normal quiet self, no one would want to be friends with me. So my question is, what do you guys do to make yourself seem more approachable but also seem like your normal self?
Thanks!!
I have a question for the INFPs and I guess anyone who knows any. I know it's part of our type's personality to seem aloof/mysterious sometimes, but I find myself initiating all my friendships because no one ever invites me out or approaches me first! It feels like I'm invisible until I make myself talk more than I usually would, and while I do get positive feedback or whatever, it feels so discouraging sometimes! Like, do they really like me or am I just imposing on their time or something? And then I feel like I have to be this happy, upbeat person all the time, because if I was my normal quiet self, no one would want to be friends with me. So my question is, what do you guys do to make yourself seem more approachable but also seem like your normal self?
Thanks!!