Take my ex for example. Part of the reason why he is so troubled is because his mother always made excuses for his bad behavior, didn't force him to go to school when he didn't feel like it, blah blah blah, then suddenly when was sixteen or seventeen she had to physically sit on him to keep him from leaving the house to go get high.
He carried a profound sense of entitlement and narcississm into his adult life, like "my needs" and "my pain" even when he was doing unacceptable things to other people.
I've noticed some bullies are like this, too. They think it's fine to talk to or treat others any way they want, but as soon as someone either fights back or punishes them, they act like they're a victim. I feel this way about many men who are in this current "pro-men" movement. While some men really are abused, many of them are just complaining because they don't have carte blanche to do whatever the fuck they want any more by simple virtue of being men.