Sounds all a bit like issues for a 16 year old. I am having troubles accepting that I could be emotionally totally insensitive. I admit I hate sunflowers and I think people who are too fluffy are stupid and I am german, but being emotionally blind to the feelings of my beloved one would hurt me.
"How dreadful!" cried Lord Henry. "I can stand brute force, but brute reason is quite unbearable. There is something unfair about its use. It is hitting below the intellect." ~ Oscar Wilde - The picture of Dorian Gray