Today I offered to send a care package, if you will, to a good friend of mine. She is an Isfp and I've spoken with her once over the phone a few years ago. I met her, her sister mother and father on an mmorpg and we clicked well. I think her parents and sister are all introverts.
That being said is related to how I feel. I feel close to these people, especially her and we have been in one argument, not even an argument. It feels as though it brought us closer as friends. She blocked me because of her life situation. She read a status of mine on facebook, took it the wrong way and blocked me. I then received many e-mails asking if I was online. I ended up becoming highly angry at her and telling her to screw off. She finally got a hold of me to apologize and I told her that I understood.
She is now married and her husband is not working enough. They hardly have any food and I'm going to send her a package of food and possibly batteries, band aids, among other things I assume she might need. A care package like I mentioned earlier. It's more than that to me, though. I feel really stupid to how much I want to help her out. I believe I do stupid things for people because I care. Like taking a stray kitty in who is covered in mites and who is in heat.
I didn't care. I didn't want her being hit by a vehicle.
I would like to know if any Nfps or Nfjs ever feel extreme embarrassing guilt when helping someone. Or, how does it feel for you to do this?