I find that I am naturally attracted to ISFJs and INFJs. To be totally honest, I would never want a girlfriend with dominant Ti. That would drive me nuts. I also despise Ni users and could never date one. They tend to be self-righteous and narrow minded in my experience.
Hm...well, a lot of INTJ guys have found me attractive in the past. I can't say I returned the feeling; I've been drawn more to INTPs & INFJs. I think some INxx types are just drawn to each other because there is an understanding that comes out of being an INxx type in an SJ world. It's like, "hey, you think a bit differently, kinda like I do", but there are still many differences to keep things interesting.
"Charlotte sometimes dreams a wall around herself. But it's always with love - So much love it looks like everything else. Charlotte Sometimes - So far away, glass sealed and pretty." - The Cure
I've heard NTs and NFs usually complement each other in a relationship, much like SJs and SPs. That's hardly a rigid rule, of course.
Ha! For me it is. I love my S friends but I don't connect on a deeper level with them.
Scenario 1 with my ISFJ friend:
Me: I was thinking about whether or not we can ride sharks in heaven.
ISFJ: So I was looking at Victoria's Secret the other night and found the CUTEST bra, omg you have to get one!
Me: And then I went on a journey to see Saturn... did you know that I celebrate my Saturn birthdays?
ISFJ: So after we eat here, we need to go buy some ok?
Me: And then I woke up and I really wanted to hug my pillow because I had a sad dream and I cried.
ISFJ: Are you listening to me? We are going to Victoria's Secret!
Me with my INFP best friend:
Me: I was thinking about whether we can rides sharks in heaven.
BF: OMG! THAT WOULD RULE! But what if they want to eat us? :X
Me: It's ok! In heaven we will be made out of cream cheese so they won't WANT to eat us!
BF: OMG FOOLPROOF IDEA! Let's go test it!
I am too NF to really date another NF. Our combined NF-ness would form Voltron and then a neutron star and then a black hole. Maybe in that order.
I need a nice scientific NT who wants to play "let's discover lightening! you be the kite, and I hold you." Me: yay!