2- Ugh... lol... no. I feel like I am the Queen of Awkwardness when it comes to expressing my feelings to someone initially. I can read people very well, but when I need to read someone in relation to myself... the whole system falls apart.
Once I get over the initial expressing... and the other person doesn't freak out on me, or withdraw, or say "oh... that's.... nice......" Then I am just fine with expressing how I feel. It's just that initial expression that is so difficult and awkward.
If I get asked by someone "how do you feel about me?" I will be very careful in responding to that person, and to a lot of Fe-users/doms... the response can be "disappointing" to them.
Guy: So... how do you feel about me?
My Thoughts: Gah, what don't I feel about you? I've writen 27 sonnets about your eyes in the past week alone!
Me: Um..... I..... uh...... like..... you........ (and if I am feeling really brave) a..... lot....
Guy with Fe: Oh.... ok.... That's.... "nice"
Me: (*face hits desk in exasperation*)
However, being able to just say that gives me maneuverability in case I find out that the guy isn't actually interested in me for a relationship... he just wants a friend. If I come out and say "I adore you!!!!1111" and he goes... "uh yeah, I was just gonna ask that you be a bridesmaid in my wedding...." Then we have an even more awkward situation.
Wow, this entire response feels rather awkward. I am gonna go exit stage left now....