F – Feeling preferred to thinking: ENFJs tend to value personal considerations above objective criteria. When making decisions, they often give more weight to social implications than to logic.
Dominant: Extraverted feeling (Fe)
Fe seeks social connections and creates harmonious interactions through polite, considerate, and appropriate behavior. Fe responds to the explicit (and implicit) wants of others, and may even create an internal conflict between the subject’s own needs and the desire to meet the needs of others.
About ESFJs, the main difference is Si versus Ni. My mom is ESFJ, she's a great woman, but whenever I want to talk about myself, she is concerned about me having everything I need right now, at a superficial level. More abstract concepts, like emotional needs, my independence, personal satisfaction within my career and so on are harder to grasp and comprehend compared to an Intuitive. Sensors are also quick to label based on what they see in the now. I've seen this not just with ESFJs. An Intuitive is more likely to wait to try to grasp the whole picture.