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    I made this a few days ago ... The thing other people have to realize about ENFJ's that even though we may be smiling and laughing with others, we may not be truly happy - but just wearing a mask - so that we can continue to give and give and never stop.

    My advice to ENFJ's who do this --- it's not always a good thing and actually detrimental to the relationship in the long term. People get so used to the mask we wear that when we finally decide that enough's enough, they realize that they never really knew us.

    I guess it's OK to show the true depth of our emotions sometimes and just allow others to come to terms with our feelings over time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adasta View Post
    Dear ENFJs,

    What is endearing to you? I thought I knew, once upon a time, but now I'm not sure I do.

    It can't all be security and 5-year plans...can it?
    Why not look at a way to remove the root cause of insecurity??
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    Intuitive (N) 51.72% Sensing (S) 48.28%
    Feeling (F) 51.61% Thinking (T) 48.39%
    Judging (J) 69.44% Perceiving (P) 30.56%

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeatherC View Post
    Why not look at a way to remove the root cause of insecurity??
    Well I'm not exactly sure what ENFJ insecurity truly is.
    That girls are raped, that two boys knife a third,
    Were axioms to him, who'd never heard
    Of any world where promises were kept,
    Or one could weep because another wept.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adasta View Post
    Well I'm not exactly sure what ENFJ insecurity truly is.
    who says it is in the ENFJ?
    Extroverted (E) 67.74% Introverted (I) 32.26%
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    Feeling (F) 51.61% Thinking (T) 48.39%
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    That girls are raped, that two boys knife a third,
    Were axioms to him, who'd never heard
    Of any world where promises were kept,
    Or one could weep because another wept.

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    ...begin talking like Yoda?

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    I'll cut you.
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
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    Researcher: VDI-P
    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

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    Quote Originally Posted by Domino View Post
    I'll cut you.
    Not very Yoda-like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
    Not very Yoda-like.
    NERD.

    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

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    Takes one to know one!

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