People radiating with energy ---------------------------------x---------Emotional vampires
However, at different times, I've been here:
People radiating with energy ------------x------------------------------Emotional vampires
I guess my job is very stressful.
I'm weak in this.2) "down" with trying new things
I really, really like this one. Sometimes I take the homeless to dinner, yes the smelling, annoying ones. I'm a crazy person.3) treats people well who are powerless
I think I'm safe here too. I tend to act non-hierarchically. That is, I consider all humans of basically equal rank, and don't care much if you call yourself "Admiral".4) doesn't abuse any kind of power they have
This could be a tough one. It depends on what I'm being asked to change and why.5) willing to change
sigh. I wish I could have less integrity. It seems like most of the people with less have a nicer life sometimes. Generally they're richer and seem to get to mate with more appealing people.6) has integrity and personal values
Yes.7) when there is a miscommunication, they handle it proactively or take it personally
Yes, to a fault.8) non judgemental and doesn't put words in your mouth
Oh used to hang out with some queens, and they'd camp on one another. I miss those days before the falling out. OMG, I would fall out my seat laughing at that shit.9) not offended by perverted humor (perverted, but not overly vulgar of course. that's what she said lines for instance)
Uh oh. I'm not sure about this one since I live on a farm and drive a pick up I paid $500 for. Isn't this in conflict with not treating the less fortunate badly?10) at least somewhat classy (you don't have to be Cary Grant to be my friend, but I certainly won't be friends with white trash, a hood rat, a whore or a dirty mexican*
*for those of you who don't know, dirty mexican refers to the mexican equivilent of white trash. it's not referring to mexicans as a whole
I'm not too sure about these last points either.I refuse to be friends with anyone who doesn't meet all of this criteria. some added plusses may include
2) intelligent (while intelligent people are vastly superior, I'm still willing to be friends with someone who isn't terribly intelligent)
4) able to contribute something of value to my knowledge base
5) sexy. if you're a guy, I'm probably more likely to be your friend if you're sexy lol
Okay, I'm 40. Too old to be in this person's circle.
I think so. It depends on what. I just bought a book on India, and I subscribe to National Geographic.intellectual openness - curiosity, interest in learning, care about the greater world
I think I score very high here.humanism - i have a hard time handling ethical hardliners or rule-followers, but i tend to get closest to people who really care about other people and who are concerned with the human condition.
I'm sort of a misfit and eccentric, but usually not tactless unless I've completely lost it.social appropriateness - not in terms of superficiality but more like tact... the ability to adapt to situations and be appropriate when it's beneficial.
I need to work on being more positive. I think this one needs work.positivity and realism - i avoid downers and fantasizers. fantasy is wonderful in the arts but it ain't real... if you lose yourself in it too much then you miss life.
Hah! This depends on what you mean.acheivement - this isn't ever something i've really thought about much, but someone pointed it out to me lately. i just tend to hang out with people who do well at whatever they're doing. i could make a lot of guesses as to why but i think mostly i have always been motivated to do well, so i relate to people like that most, and they help keep me motivated too.
Uh oh! No introverts.typewise... my closest friends are, i think - ENFJ 3w4, ESFJ 2w3, ENFJ 2w3, ENFP 7w6.
Myself, I'm not an "anti-boredom" device. Thank you.YES. i am not an advice hotline.
I am very open-minded.I can see that maybe I would find someone wasn't as openminded as I thought they were or something, but I doubt it would change my opinion of the whole. I think in my mind it would just mean I didn't care as much about that trait as I thought I did, so I was mistaken about me.