Hello, its been a long time since I posted hasn't it?
Well the title says it all......I have a need to daydream at least once a day and I consciously try to do it when no one is around. My family has this way of reprimanding me on every 'strange' thing I do. And while I really am grateful and all, it keeps me on my guard. I used to daydream at school, on the bus, in my room, but well I finally found a place where I could do it without being interrupted rudely. (well to them it looks like I am merely thinking but still!) I did it in the bathroom, it used to be a 'break' for me. I have this habit of wanting to move a lot when I daydream, and as my family just WILL NOT believe me even if I tell them I am in a great pinch.
See there were complaints about me staying in the bathroom for hours (all lies it was only 40-something minutes) and well my dad snapped (an ISTJ)
I know the bathroom is a dirty place, its bad to stay there for a long time but I can't think of any other place that would ensure absolute privacy.......even if I lock my room it will be considered as a felony, so I am really stuck now.
I have many reasons to believe that my elder brother is an ISTP and my mother an ESFJ. Both of them have their own 'theories' at what I do in there, but for the life of me I won't tell them. Ever.
First off they won't believe me, second they will never forget it, third my dad will ask me exactly what I daydream about, which ranges from many things from future careers, to cartoons, to books. I don't know if he will ban me from everything, but I do know he will not believe me, even more so than my mother and brother. (there are more people in the family but currently these three are the 'heads')
There are many things they find annoying and weird about me, things which I just can't explain because they will think I am lying (very skeptical people they are)
Well I was hoping someone could offer me another place I could zone off in without any fear but I guess that is an unreasonable thing to ask. So how about just saying if you have had to face this problem too sometime, and what you did to overcome it. I am sure I could think up of something then.