just wondering if anyone has any thoughts on whether either an ENFJ or an INFP would conduct little "tests" to guage interest of a potential mate?
from my experience as an INFP, I am soo shy and would want to be certain of a potential mate's interest. I've read contradictory info about ENFJs: they go after what they want but they also need to be certain of a person's interest before they confess theirs. so my question is that in an INFP/ENFJ pairing (or any with those types) do either type conduct little "tests" to guage the other's affection? e.g., not being responsive to see if the other reaches out to them, thus demonstrating interest? or sending out other "feelers" or hints and analyzing the response to see if there's interest? just wondering. thanks~